Celebrity Vows-Whether
you write them yourself, are inspired by others or take your cues from
tradition, your wedding vows are perhaps some of the most important words you'll
ever say. To check out the vows these celebrities used in their ceremonies
Marilyn
Monroe and Arthur Miller
White Plains, New York-June 29, 1956
We are here today to participate in a most joyous occasion, to celebrate one of
life's greatest moments, by acknowledging the wedding of Arthur and Marilyn.
Arthur, do you take Marilyn to be your lawful wedded wife? Do you promise to
love, honour, and protect her? Share the good times and achievements as well as
the hard times and disappointments? Keep her in sickness and in sorrow and to be
faithful to her forevermore?
Marilyn, do you take Arthur to be your lawful wedded husband? Do you promise to
love, honour, and protect him? Share the good times and achievements as well as
the hard times and disappointments? Keep him in sickness and in sorrow and to be
faithful to him forevermore?
I give you this ring in token and pledge as a symbol of all that we share with
my constant faith and abiding love.
Now that you have joined yourselves in matrimony, may you strive always to meet
this commitment with the same spirit you now exhibit. We all bear witness to
this ceremony you have just performed and you may now call yourselves by those
old and respected names, husband and wife. May God bless this union. You may
kiss the bride.
Paul
Newman and Joanne Woodward
Las Vegas, Nevada-January 29, 1958
We have come here today in the presence of God to join in holy matrimony Paul
and Joanne.
Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must
be created. In the Art of Marriage: The little things are the big things. It is
never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say 'I love you' at
least once a day. It is never going to sleep angry. It is at no time taking the
other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should
continue through all the years. It is having a mutual sense of values and common
objectives. It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of
love that gathers in the whole family. It is doing things for each other, not in
the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking
words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is not
expecting the husband to wear a halo or the wife to have wings of an angel. It
is not looking for perfection in each other. It is cultivating flexibility,
patience, understanding and a sense of humour. It is having the capacity to
forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can
grow. It is finding room for the things of the spirit. It is a common search for
the good and the beautiful. It is establishing a relationship in which the
independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal. It
is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.
Paul, will you have Joanne to be your lawful wedded wife? Will you love her,
comfort her, keep her in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be
faithful to her so long as you both shall live?
Joanne, will you have Paul to be your lawful wedded husband? Will you love him,
comfort him, keep him in sickness and in health and forsaking all others, be
faithful to him so long as you both shall live?
This ring I give in token and pledge as a sign of my love and devotion, with
this ring I thee wed.
Elvis
Presley and Priscilla Beaulieu
Las Vegas, Nevada-May 1, 1967
Marriage is an honourable estate. It is not to be entered into lightly or
unadvisedly, but discreetly and soberly. Into this relationship these two
persons come now to be joined. I ask you both that if you know any reason why
you should not be joined in marriage, you make it known at this time.
Elvis, do you take Priscilla to be your wedded wife, to live together in bonds
of marriage? Will you love her, comfort her, honour and keep her, so long as you
both shall live?
Priscilla, do you take Elvis to be your wedded husband, to live together in
bonds of marriage? Will you love him, comfort him, honour and keep him, so long
as you both shall live?
I, Elvis, take thee,
Priscilla, to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for
better or worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and
to cherish.
I, Priscilla, take
thee, Elvis, to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better or worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love
and to cherish.
Inasmuch as you have
consented together in marriage, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the
laws of the state, I now pronounce you husband and wife.
Bruce
Willis and Demi Moore
Las Vegas, Nevada-November 21, 1987
I, Bruce, take thee,
Demi, to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for
better or worse, for richer or poorer, through sickness and in health, to love
and to cherish, till death do us part. With this ring I thee wed, in here with,
I pledge to you my love and devotion, so long as we both shall live.
I, Demi, take thee,
Bruce, to be my wedded husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for
better or worse, for richer or poorer, through sickness and in health, to love
and to cherish, till death do us part. With this ring I thee wed, in here with,
I pledge to you my love and devotion, so long as we both shall live.
Inasmuch as Bruce and
Demi have consented in holy wedlock and have witness the same before God,
according to the powers vested in me by this state and being an ordained
minister of the Gospel, I pronounce that you are husband and wife. In the name
of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, those whom God has joined together
let no one out asunder
Julia
Roberts and Lyle Lovett
Marion, Indiana-June 27, 1993
The union of husband
and wife in heart, body, and mind is intended by God for their mutual joy, for
the help and comfort given one another during prosperity and adversity, and when
it is God's will, for the procreation of children and their nurture in the
knowledge and love of the Lord. Therefore, marriage is not to be entered
unadvisedly or lightly, but reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the
purpose for which it was instituted by God.
I, Lyle, in the presence of God and these witnesses, take you, Julia, to be my
wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for
richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until
death parts us, and I pledge you my faithfulness.
I, Julia, in the presence of God and these witnesses, take you, Lyle, to be my
husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for
richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until
death parts us, and I pledge you my faithfulness.
Receive this ring as a pledge and token of wedded love and faithfulness.
Harry
Connick, Jr. and Jill Goodacre
New Orleans, Louisiana-April 16, 1994
I, Harry, take you, Jill, to be my wife. I promise to be true to you in good
times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honour you all the
days of my life.
I, Jill, take you, Harry, to be my husband. I promise to be true to you in good
times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love and honour you all the
days of my life.
Jill, take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the
Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Harry, take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity. In the name of the
Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Kurt
Cobain and Courtney Love
Waikiki, Hawaii-February 24, 1992
True marriage is more than joining the bonds of marriage of two persons. In its
right relation, it's the uniting of two souls already attuned to each other.
When such a true bond already exists between man and woman, it is fitting that
an outer acknowledgment be made. This acknowledgment is the prime object of this
gathering and this ceremony. We are here to bear witness to the entry into the
closer relationship of husband and wife of these beloved friends who are already
one in spirit.
You are now taking into your care and keeping the happiness of the one person in
all the world whom you love best. You are adding to your life not only the
affection of each other, but also the companionship and blessing of a deep trust
as well. You are agreeing to share strength, responsibilities and to share love.
At the end of this ceremony, legally you will be husband and wife, but you still
must decide each and every day that stretches before you, that you want to be
married. Make such a decision and keep on making it, for the most important
thing in life is to love and be loved.
May you always need one another, not so much to fill the emptiness as to help
each other know your fullness. May you want one another, but not out of lack.
May you embrace one another, but not encircle one another. May you succeed in
all-important ways with each other, and not fail in the little graces. Look for
things to praise, often say 'I love you' and take no notice of small faults. May
you have happiness, and may you find it in making one another happy. May you
have love, and may you find it in loving one another.
This ring by its shape is a symbol of the undying love that exists between you.
The substance of which it is composed is a symbol of purity, which shall ever
characterize your mind and hearts in all your relationships together.
EIA IHO NO, KA MALUHIA, O NA LANI, ME OUKOU A PAU (The peace and serenity of the
heavens be with you all). And so it is ... Amen ... and ALOHA!
Cindy
Crawford and Richard Gere
Las Vegas, Nevada-December 12, 1991
We are gathered here in the sight of God to join together this man and this
woman in holy matrimony. The love of God is an example for your devotion, and
you are not left without guidance concerning the meaning of that love because
God is love and love is all. A wedding ceremony is the perfect place to read
from Corinthians. This is what God said love is: Love is patient and kind, knows
no jealousy, gives itself no false airs or false pride. Never irritated, never
resentful, love is neither glad when others go wrong or become hurt. Love is
guided by goodness, always eager to believe the best, always hopeful.
Remember, anything beautiful that you have, came from God. In the beginning, God
gave us our free will and our identity to walk this earth. Don't ever try to
change each other, because if you do, you will lose exactly what you fell in
love with. So, each day try to find one more thing that is beautiful in your
mate and each day know that the next day will be more beautiful than the one
before. As long as you are doing this, you are seeking beauty, joy, and love in
each other.
Richard, do you take Cindy to be your wedded wife? To have and to hold, to love
and to cherish, in sickness and in health, in times of good and bad?
Cindy, do you take Richard to be your wedded husband? To have and to hold, to
love and to cherish, in sickness and in health, in times of good and bad?
I, Richard, pledge to you, Cindy, as my friend, my love, and my companion to
love, honour, and cherish as long as we both shall live.
I, Cindy, pledge to you, Richard, as my friend, my love, and my companion to
love, honour, and cherish as long as we both shall live.
I give this ring in token and in pledge of my constant faith and abiding love
with all that I am, and all that I will become.
Michael
Jordan and Juanita R. Vanoy
Las Vegas, Nevada-September 2, 1989
Marriage is not only a commitment between lovers; it is also an agreement
between two friends. Allow each other time to be an individual, respect each
other's wishes as well as their dreams.
Selfishness has no place in a lasting relationship. Happiness is what each of
you should seek for the other. Ask less for yourself than you are willing to
give. Love can be shown by a word or touch or two thoughts entwined as one. In
every relationship, trust is very important; never break that trust.
With this ring I thee wed, pledging to you all my love and faithfulness
forevermore.
Beverly
Hills 90210-David & Donna (TV)
David:
When was it that
we fell in love, when we were 18 or 16, maybe 10? I don't know 'cause the truth
is I can't picture a time that I wasn't in love with you. I always knew you were
the one that could look into my eyes and see my soul. I don't question your
commitment to us and I know there's nothing we can't work through. And I except
you as my partner and as my best friend above all others. It's a miracle to find
the kind of peace and happiness that you've given me and in honour of that
miracle, I pledge before our family and friends to love and to cherish you
forever.
Donna: I look at you and I see my best friend, your energy and
your passion inspire me in ways I never thought possible. Your inner beauty, so
strong, that I know longer fear being myself. I know longer fear at all. I never
thought that I could find someone that I could love that would love me back
unconditionally. Then I realize that although we were often apart you were
always with me, and you were my soul mate. You give me purpose when I feel I
have none. Without you my soul would be empty, my heart broken, my being
incomplete. I thank god everyday that you were brought into my life, and I thank
you for loving me.
Personalised
& Traditional Vows
Your
wedding vows are words of expression, witnessed by friends and family, as a
testament to the love you and your fiancé share. Planning a wedding is always
hectic, but be sure to take some time out to decide on what type of vows you
will exchange on your special day.
Vows
are uniquely your own and can be whatever you choose. Some couples choose
traditional vows, some choose religious vows while others choose to write their
own.
Traditional
Vows
I,
(name) take thee, (name) to be my wedded (husband/wife), to have and to hold
from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in
sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, 'til death do us part, according
to God's holy ordinance; thereto I plight thee my troth. (thereto I pledge my
love). (The Book of Common Prayer)
I
take you, (name), to be my (husband/wife) from this day forward, to join with
you and share all that is to come, and I promise to be faithful to you of God
and this congregation to declare your intent. Will you have this (man/woman) to
be your (husband/wife), to live together in a holy marriage? Will you love
(him/her), comfort (him/her), honour (him/her), and keep (him/her) in sickness
and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful to (him/her) as long as you
both shall live? (Bride/Groom) : I will. (United Methodist Declaration of
Consent)
(Name),
I take you to be my lawfully wedded ( husband/wife). Before these witnesses I
vow to love you and care for you as long as we both shall live. I
take you, with all your faults and strengths, as I offer myself to you with all
my faults and strengths. I will help you when you need help, and turn to you
when I need help. I choose you as the person with whom I will spend my life.
(Civil Ceremony Wedding Vows)
This
ring I give you, in token and pledge of our constant faith and abiding love.
(Presbyterian Exchange of Rings)
(Name),
Our miracle lies in the path we have chosen together. I enter into this marriage
with you knowing that the true magic of love is not to avoid changes, but to
navigate them successfully. Let us commit until death parts us. (Lutheran
Wedding Vows)
Behold
you are consecrated unto me with this ring, according to the law of Moses
and Israel. ( Jewish Exchange of Rings)
I,
(name), take you, (name), to be my (husband/wife). I promise to be true to you
in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honour
you all the days of my life. ( Roman Catholic Wedding Vows)
Bride
: I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you an obedient and faithful
wife. Groom : I pledge, in honesty and sincerity, to be for you an obedient and
faithful husband. ( Muslim Wedding Vows)
I
give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I
have, I honour you, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy
Spirit. (Episcopal Exchange of Rings)
Official
: Christ calls you into union with him and with one another. I ask you now in
the presence of God and this congregation to declare your intent. Will you have
this (man/woman) to be your ( husband/wife), to live together in a holy
marriage? Will you love (him/her), comfort (him/her), honour and keep (him/her),
in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, be faithful to (him/her) as
long as you both shall live? (Bride/Groom) : I will. (United Methodist
Declaration of Consent)
Contemporary
Vows
(Name),
our miracle lies in the path we have chosen together. I enter into this marriage
with you knowing that the true magic of love is not to avoid changes, but to
navigate them successfully. Let us commit to the miracle of making each day work
together.
(Name),
I covenant with you to be your (husband/wife). I offer you my love and my
support throughout all of our lives. I commit myself to years of growth and
sharing as I encourage you to move in new direction. I will strive to achieve my
potential as God's creature and will celebrate your progress toward the same
goal. I give myself as I am and as I will be, and I do it for all of life.
Respecting
each other, we commit to live our lives together for all the days to come.
(Name), I ask you to share this world with me, for good and ill. Be my partner,
and I will be yours.
On
this day (month, day, year), I , (name), join myself to you, (name), before this
company. May our days be long, and may they be seasoned with love,
understanding, and respect.
Today
we move from "I" to "We". (Name), take this ring as a symbol
of my decision to join my life with yours until death should part us. I walked
to this place to meet you today; we shall walk from it together.
Now
we stand together; may it always be so. (Name), I offer myself to you today as
your (husband/wife); I will always love you, respect you and be faithful to you.
Come
health, happiness, and prosperity, I will stand with you; come illness, trouble,
or poverty, I will stand with you. Take this ring, (name), as a sign of my love
and commitment.
Today,
(name), I join my life to yours, not merely as your (husband/wife), but as your
friend, your lover, and your confidant. Let me be the shoulder you lean on, the
rock on which you rest, the companion of your life. With you I will walk my path
from this day forward.
I
came here today, (name), to join my life to yours before this company. In their
presence I pledge to be true to you, to respect you, and to grow with you
through the years. Time may pass, fortune may smile, trials may come; no matter
what we may encounter together, I vow here that this love will be my only love.
I will make my home in your heart from this day forward.
Unique
Situations
I
have enjoyed the time we've spent talking about what our different faiths mean
to us. We have discovered much that we share in common. It is my prayer that the
candles we have lit together today in unity will enlighten our path to the
future. I promise to honour your traditions as I honour you. Vows for Interfaith
Marriages)
I
offer you not the "summer of my life" but the autumn, brisk and
vibrant. I promise to be a companion worthy of your precious friendship. I
pledge you compassion in good times and bad; encouragement in sickness and
health. It is my intent that our life together include our large circle of
friends and loving families. We'll cherish the memories of our individual pasts;
and create our new life as we go now together. (Vows for Marriage Later in Life)
Our
love has opened windows to the worlds we lived in as children. I have found
profound respect for your heritage; but, I am not part of it. We have vowed to
live our adult lives together. Our marriage will be a new creation. Now I
promise to build bridges of understanding and share the best of myself with your
family, your friends and you. ( Vows for an Intercultural Marriage)