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KATHERINE
OF ARAGON
By Wendy J. Dunn
In England, later events proved Catalina very much her
mother’s daughter. Yet – the history changing measures enforced by her
mother, when her children witnessed long seasons of war and conquest, a land
often rent by a constant state of change, were lessons she never forgot. In
many ways, she proved herself a wiser and nobler woman than Isabel.
Her parents decided, signed and sealed her life before her
third birthday, agreeing to wed her to another infant, the first-born son of
a new English royal family. That wasn’t unusual. In the fifteenth and sixteenth
centuries, early betrothals were common for princesses. They were pawns for
their family, brokered and discarded whenever needed. Especially so in
Katherine’s case – her parents were beginning to gain a reputation for
marrying rather warring to increase their power base. Her parent’s
descendants continued this, so much so it was said: Bella
gerant alii, tu, felix Austria, nube (Let others
make war, you, fortunate Austria, marry.) Thirteen years after the first negotiations, at only
fifteen, Catalina journeyed overland from Granada to the seaports of
Corunna. Ships waited there to take her to England, where she would marry
Arthur, Prince of Wales, the fifteen-year-old heir to the English throne. The dangerous journey across Castile took Catalina months.
Her mother, ill and broken by grief, couldn’t bear accompanying her youngest
child for any part of the journey. With her other daughters, she made a
habit of going far with them, personally handing them over to their new
lives with joy. But her joy within months turned into grief. By the time her youngest child left her side, death sliced
the number of her children from five to three. Her only son died at
nineteen. Loved and doted on, his death cast a dark shadow on all his
parents’ hopes for a unified Castilla and Aragon. Shortly after his death,
Isabel’s eldest daughter died in childbirth, after going to a marriage she
tried her best for years to avoid. With Catalina, Queen Isabel kept her by her side as long
as she could, giving excuses to the English for all the delays. Finally, the
Queen could delay no more. Catalina left her mother’s arms for the last time
in Granada. They both knew they would never see one another again in life. Coming to England from Castile meant braving a treacherous
sea crossing. Storms forced Catalina’s ships back the first time; the second
attempt was worst, except the hurricanes finally managed, after many times
blowing Catalina’s ship away from England’s shores, to bring her ship safe
into a English harbour. One the first things Katherine (the name we know her
best as) was to go to a church and give thanks for surviving. She feared
then about her future. Future events proved her right. Already, grief had interwoven thickly its dark threads in
Katherine of Aragon’s life; in England, this weave continued its criss-cross
to the very end. In modern society, we take for granted the fact our
children are more than likely to reach adulthood. The advances in medical
knowledge have gifted us with the expectation that our children will
out-live us. We face childbirth knowing the great likelihood of a happy
outcome; women no longer ready themselves for the possibility of death when
they give birth. Far too many times, childbirth meant death for mother or
child in the fifteenth or sixteenth centuries, sometimes both. For people
then, death was almost a daily companion. Times were hard and living a daily
proposition. Despite their greater experience of death in the fifteenth
and sixteenth centuries, losing loved ones still struck people to the quick. When Katherine’s eldest sister
lost her husband, Alfonso, prince of Portugal, in a riding accident, she cut
her hair off, locked herself away in a dark room, refused to eat or sleep.
Her parents brought their daughter home, but young Isabel never stopped
grieving. Isabel of Castile and Fernando of Aragon gave their eldest
child five years of widowhood – then made another marriage for her, this
time to Alfonso’s kinsman, now King of Portugal. Isabel only went through the motions; giving birth to a
son she let go of life. It broke her parent’s hearts when this same baby
died in his grandmother’s arms less than two years later. When Katherine came to marry Arthur Tudor she already bore
this cross of grief. But her belief in God and the world to come kept her
going forward. Katherine’s cross of grief grew heavier in England. Her
marriage to Arthur, celebrated with such hope and joy, lasted only short
months. He succumbed to one of the many illnesses that struck hard and fast
in these times, and so often took young lives. Within short months,
Katherine was promised to Arthur’s brother, Henry. Less than a year after Arthur’s death, she lost the one
person at court who cared enough to really help her. Elizabeth of York,
Arthur’s mother, died trying to give her husband another son. Then Katherine’s own mother died. Her death hit her young
daughter hard – not only because she lost a mother she loved, but also
because her mother’s death lessened her importance in the royal marrying
stakes. For years, she became a pawn for her father and Henry VII
to squabble over. Sometimes a wanted pawn, most often not. By time of Henry VII’s death all she wanted was to come
home and be allowed to take the veil. But his death meant a new King: Henry
VIII: a youth of not yet eighteen. One of his first acts as England’s uncrowned King was to
marry his brother’s widow. And not just because he thought it right to do.
Before almost yearly childbearing in the first seven years of marriage,
usually followed by grief for another dead baby, dragged her down and
thickened her body, Katherine was a very pretty woman, very tiny, possessing
beautiful red/gold hair. Except for Anne Boleyn, Henry always liked his
women so. But twenty or so years later, five or six dead babies and
only one girl for his heir made the King decide his marriage to Katherine
was cursed by God and indeed no marriage. Not surprisingly, Katherine didn’t agree. Her first
marriage was to a boy; she vowed she came to Henry virgin, untouched by man.
She loved Henry. She believed in him. To her dying day, she blamed their
separation on those surrounding him. Katherine loved God with all the passion of her Spanish
heredity. The many trials she suffered in life only served to make this love
stronger. She believed that “We never come to the kingdom of Heaven but by
troubles.” With all her troubles, this belief must have been an almost daily
mantra. Love and duty her life’s lodestars, such was her character
the ordinary people of England always loved her. They took her to hearts
when she first came to their shores: a lonely girl, exiled forever from the
land of her birth. A girl well taught to do her duty. She did that and more,
but her duty always went first to God. Katherine lived her life with great courage and
resolution. Garrett Mattingly, her best-known biographer, called her granite
shaping the final course of the stream. Katherine of Aragon tried hard to
fight her husband’s desire for divorce by intelligent argument and staying
true to her conscience – only to discover at the end her earthly war lost. Still – victory comes in many guises. When she died, she
only regretted the lack of her husband and daughter at her side. She closed
her eyes and breathed her last knowing God took her to Him. Henry VIII may have claimed her only as his brother’s wife
at her death, but for all time England’s heart remembers her as one of its
most beloved queens. Fresh flowers always adorn her tomb in the beautiful
Cathedral of Saint Petersburg. Katherine’s love changed history forever. Reference: Garrett Mattingly, Catherine of Aragon, 1942
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