Lin's First Web SiteMonth 5 - May / June 2003
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Mama now has my social life very organised - I have educational and physical activities every morning six days a week: Monday is Gymbaroo, Tuesday is Playgroup, Wednesday is YMCA, Thursday is another Playgroup, Friday is Music, Saturday is Swimming lessons with Baba. Lunchtime I come home for a sleep! Then two or three afternoons a week, Catherine or Nicole, Early Childhood students from the University of Western Sydney come to the house to play with me whilst Mama works on her computer.

Monday is Gymbaroo.
Monday is Gymbaroo.
Tuesday - PleasureTime Playgroup.
Tuesday - PleasureTime Playgroup.
Wednesday - YMCA Toddler Gymnastics.
Wednesday - YMCA Toddler Gymnastics. Love the trampoline but I'm not big enough to jump yet - I just stand there and let others do the jumping.
Thursday - Playgroup at Gunnamatta Park.
Thursday - Playgroup at Gunnamatta Park. Giddyup horsey
First Professional Swimming Lesson
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Watch me learn to jump in the pool and be caught by Baba

Pouring with rain still, after a week of floods and still with a runny nose from a cold all week but nevertheless Baba and Lin braved the elements along with 3 other brave toddlers to learn to swim at the Caringbah Swimming Pool - "pool" is one of the English words that Lin can say. Our own pool is currently a blackish green colour after the floods dumped a mudslide in it this week. Oh the joys of living on a hillside - great views but shocking waterflow problems!

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Watch us learn to grab the side of the pool.
Next lesson is learning to get out of the pool
in case I fall in when no-one is around to catch me.
NSW Batch 7 Reunion

The batch of couples that travelled to China together (NSW Batch 7 as we are called by the Department of Community Services) had a reunion to celebrate our first 4 months home with our daughters.

Batch 7 includes a couple that did not travel to China because his mother and father, Chris and Kasuko were fortunate to receive a beautiful Japanese baby boy, Sei, via local adoption a few months before we travelled.

The four girls have all grown in their four months with us in Australia. They are all understanding English very well and have learnt many new skills. We are sure these Mother's Love girls will be good friends as they grow up. All the parents are still amazed that we got the "right" daughter for each of us. We could easily have been matched with each others' daughters or a daughter from Batch 6 as it is supposed to be a random matter but we all feel we were superbly matched with the ones we have, as do Chris & Kasuko with their Japanese son.
 
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L to R: Cen (16 months), Lin (20 months),
Chelsea (18 months) and Kimberley (20 months)
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Sei loves to come to Batch 7 activities to meet all his "girlfriends". Cen's three bio brothers also were a big hit with our girls and they all played together for hours.
 
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Two couples, one from Queensland and one from Newcastle, were unable to make this reunion. Thank you to Ken and Anne and their daughter Kimberley for organising us. The next reunion is planned for October and some of the batch are planning a visit to Tumut in August to play with Cen in the snow.


Lin is now an Australian Citizen - we completed the paperwork at the Department of Immigration at Parramatta when we went to Westmead Hospital and her certificate arrived on Thursday. It is a condition of adoption from China that we forward proof of citizenship within a year of arriving in Australia.


Social Worker visit. The DOCS Social Worker has to visit us every four months for the first year of Lin's adoption to check that all is OK and to write a report to China. Based on these visits and on our self-reports (we have just completed the second report). This is the same Social Worker who did the four home visits as part of the approval process and who brought the photos and paperwork to us when we were allocated our baby in December.

Lin rushed home from Gymbaroo in time for the appointment. Lin wanted to play with us all but Mama and Baba needed to talk to the Social Worker. She looked like so she was going to put on a good tantrum for the Social Worker but fortunately her Winnie the Pooh DVD came to the rescue and kept her occupied for a while until the bees chased poor Pooh. She gets very upset for Pooh's welfare when the bees attack him and came to tell us all about it. She can say "Pooh" and "bee" - last week at one of the playgroups we attend, she got a bee stamp and immediately started saying "buzz, buzz, buzz..." Oh, you're so clever Xiao Qiu!

Health Later that afternoon we went to the doctors because Lin's chest had been rattling for two weeks - probably swimming lessons did not help. The doctor decided to try a course of antibiotics but later that evening Xiao Qiu suddenly threw up and her temperature skyrocketed and then she fell asleep for a couple of hours. When she woke I gave her Panadol and that brought the temperature down enough for her to eat but soon the Panadol wore off and the temperature went up again. We thought it was a reaction to the antibiotics and changed the prescription. However this continued for 4 days and her coughing increased.

We had numerous visits to the doctor, cancelled all outings and watched her Pooh video a hundred times. We ended up in the Children's Hospital one night where they put her on a drip to rehydrate her and did tests which concluded she had nothing more serious than a virus and bronchitis. The drip conquered the temperature problem but coughing and wheezing, bronchitis and asthma followed over the next two weeks, then another trip to the hospital. For a fuller description see the notes we wrote in  our third report to DOCS.  Lin's first winter in Australia has been hard on her health-wise but her parents have learnt a lot now about how to manage her health. We hope we'll get better at looking after her.

I've gone Pooh-mad
I've gone Pooh-mad since Baba bought me a Pooh DVD - I can't even take my eyes of the TV to have my photo taken.
AAC Monthly Playgroup
Sunday - at AAC Monthly Playgroup with Erica and other daughters adopted from China.
Kimberley in Lilli Pilli
We had morning tea today at the grandparents of Kimberley in Lilli Pilli - Kimberley is from the same batch as Lin.
McDonalds
The trip to McDonalds was after one of the trips to the doctors - the salt on the chips seems to be the only way to make her drink fluid so I guess a place which we never visited and which we are ideologically opposed to will now become a regular haunt for us along with all other harrassed parents.